What Cheeses Me Off!!!!

discomatt

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It was more about the legal system and personal requirements rather than dealing with the emotional side of family with dementia
All the best to anyone who has loved ones with dementia, after seeing 2 Grandparents die from it and my wife working directly with it for 20 years it is something truly terrible
 

Albynsw

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I have just been through the dimentia disaster with my late father in law and now dealing with the mother in law o_O
I have to say the medical care side of things has been excellent but accessing the aged care system is a slow process and we are paying for carers out of our own pocket whilst in the 6 month long cue to get a ACAP number to access government services .
The staff are all fantastic but they have a huge workload in front of them.

My wife and I are in the process of updating our wills which are over 20 years old now as a result. I want to check out before I become a burden on my children like we are currently experiencing
 

boobook

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I have just been through the dimentia disaster with my late father in law and now dealing with the mother in law o_O
I have to say the medical care side of things has been excellent but accessing the aged care system is a slow process and we are paying for carers out of our own pocket whilst in the 6 month long cue to get a ACAP number to access government services .
The staff are all fantastic but they have a huge workload in front of them.

My wife and I are in the process of updating our wills which are over 20 years old now as a result. I want to check out before I become a burden on my children like we are currently experiencing
I must say dealing with the Government ---so far has been amazing how supportive they are. I have never claimed 1 cent of welfare in my life, so I was quite surprised what there is to offer. There is a hell of a lot of paperwork and it takes some time to understand it but the system and services have been much better than I expected. The people are wonderful.

There is no easy answer and I am sure some people have awful experiences, but there are clearly a lot of whiners too.
 
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boobook

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If your interested in the article just go through ABC rather than the link, well worth a read if people are not up to speed with legal requirements regarding power of attorney and what happens when you become controlled by the state
Matt, there was a 1 hour version on ABC news Radio that I just listened to. Apart from the journalist patting her self on the back so much her hand must be sore, it was much more comprehensive. Worth listening to. It had a whole lot more balance than the edited text version. It was good listening.
 

cookie64

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This cheeses me off, make sure all your legal stuff is in place especially power of attorney with someone you trust your life with, been through this crap before and it’s nasty, keep in mind your spouse does not automatically get power of attorney, it must be done separately to a will
Oh yeah don't I know it
 

John U

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I must say dealing with the Government ---so far has been amazing how supportive they are. I have never claimed 1 cent of welfare in my life, so I was quite surprised what there is to offer. There is a hell of a lot of paperwork and it takes some time to understand it but the system and services have been much better than I expected. The people are wonderful.

There is no easy answer and I am sure some people have awful experiences, but there are clearly a lot of whiners too.
I collected the rock n roll for a couple of months when I finished uni and was looking for my first gig. The hoops that i needed to jump through were ridiculous. They've only made it harder since. Plus they've sacked a heap of the workforce which means long waits in phone queues to do anything. This is not the fault of the people manning the phones though.

If you've had a good experience you are an exception to the rule.
 

LongRoad2Go

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I collected the rock n roll for a couple of months when I finished uni and was looking for my first gig. The hoops that i needed to jump through were ridiculous. They've only made it harder since. Plus they've sacked a heap of the workforce which means long waits in phone queues to do anything. This is not the fault of the people manning the phones though.

If you've had a good experience you are an exception to the rule.
This dates back to ancient times - 1980's - just out of school and hadn't made my mind up what to do, so Dad said: 'You need to go on unemployment benefits'. I was VERY reluctant, but Dad said: 'I've paid taxes all my life, and went to war as well, so you're going on the dole'.

Admittedly, it was a personal embarrassment, we weren't raised to be a drain on anyone, but as it worked out, it was only for a few months - got excepted into Surveying and did that full time on some type of student allowance. The dole money went into a Term Deposit that eventually allowed me to buy my first car with cash - no HP and greater freedom - commitment and hard work! When the four years of study was up, got a letter from the DSS (Dept of Social Security) that offered a Federal Government trainee-ship with Local Government, that led to a permanent possie in LG - a glorified labourer but still a very good door-opener - and the rest is history: worked full time while studying Civil Engineering, and later another degree in a related field while still working full-time.

Have been happy to pay taxes ever since - hopefully they continue to give some youngster a hand up, as opposed to a hand out, so they too can move forward in life.

Anyone who says working full-time and studying is too hard, isn't committed enough - weak snowflakes.
 

John U

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cookie64

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Anyone who says working full-time and studying is too hard, isn't committed enough - weak snowflakes.
Undertook a lot of study whilst holding down job(s) - sometimes I had up to 3 jobs all casual but all very good experience, heck even worked for nothing for a while in order to get into my chosen vocation which led me into electrical / electronic engineering.

Was in a number of Management positions whilst undertaking numerous TAFE classes

The one thing I know is that those that sit on their ass are critical of those that put in the hard yards and have got somewhere.
 

smwhiskey

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This dates back to ancient times - 1980's - just out of school and hadn't made my mind up what to do, so Dad said: 'You need to go on unemployment benefits'. I was VERY reluctant, but Dad said: 'I've paid taxes all my life, and went to war as well, so you're going on the dole'.

I'm from the same era. Got Austudy for the first three of years of uni but wasn't eligible for my final year. While I was arguing with the person on the other end of the phone they told me that while I wasn't eligible for Austudy, I was eligible for the dole which paid $30 a week more. Go Figure.
But thats reminded me of one of funny moments of all that period. I was part of the Army Reserve in those days and when I applied for the dole I admitted that I was in the AR and they told me that any money I earnt there either wasn't considered in the means test or I wasn't going to earn enough to make a difference (I don't remember which) But Bonus. :)

Part of getting the dole back then was filling in the paperwork and submitting it at the local CES fortnightly (I think). No online forms in those days. One fortnight I was on my "2 weeks a year" part of the commitment and I had to submit my paperwork. Being assigned to Q Store part of my duties involved driving equipment, rations, people from point A to Point B in an army truck. I had to head up to Wide Bay training but I was allowed to detour to put my forms in. So, dressed to kill in the new Camo gear the ADF was being issued with at the time, I parked the truck out the front, strode in through the front doors and just stood in line with everybody looking at me. People couldn't believe what they were seeing. Oddly enough people kept letting me move in front of them in the line. Submitted my forms and walked out again.

Wouldn't happen today.

Paid 35 years of taxes since then so I reckon I've more than repaid my debt to the Government that supported me back then.

Simon
 

discomatt

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What cheeses me off??
When people tell me LR are the most unreliable cars when I have driven them well over half a million km, probably closer to 3/4 of a million with one flat battery, one fuel pump plug and 1 water pump leaving me on the side of the road when in the last 2.5 years my VW work car has left me sitting on the street de of the road 3 times
This time I’m just managed to roll off. The Monash freeway onto an off ramp so at least my life isn’t in danger. Unlike last time when I was as on the side in a 110 zon
Now VW are the true shit heaps but you never see anyone bagging them out, I will, what absolute bucket of crap
 
What cheeses me of is....., when people drive around with a set of brand new max trax ramps on their rooves(roofs?) ! Do they polish the bastards up before they leave home ? Do they ever use them ? 9 times out of ten, if they let their tyres down and drove more mindfully they wouldn't need them. Maybe it's like "look at me, I'm a serious, tear the f**k out of the land, 4WDriver!"
"Just like my heroes, Simon and Jase !"
 

John U

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What cheeses me of is....., when people drive around with a set of brand new max trax ramps on their rooves(roofs?) ! Do they polish the bastards up before they leave home ? Do they ever use them ? 9 times out of ten, if they let their tyres down and drove more mindfully they wouldn't need them. Maybe it's like "look at me, I'm a serious, tear the f**k out of the land, 4WDriver!"
"Just like my heroes, Simon and Jase !"
Take anywhere mobile shading units. That's why I got mine.
 

callmejoe

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What cheeses me of is....., when people drive around with a set of brand new max trax ramps on their rooves(roofs?) ! Do they polish the bastards up before they leave home ? Do they ever use them ? 9 times out of ten, if they let their tyres down and drove more mindfully they wouldn't need them. Maybe it's like "look at me, I'm a serious, tear the f**k out of the land, 4WDriver!"
"Just like my heroes, Simon and Jase !"

I don't leave for camping without my 6 maxtax.
I think there a fantastic bit of gear, even with a winch I have still needed to used them.
They are a big part of my recovery arsenal..
In saying that anything less then 4 i think your wasting your time, I like 6 as I'm using towing..
 

discomatt

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I don't leave for camping without my 6 maxtax.
I think there a fantastic bit of gear, even with a winch I have still needed to used them.
They are a big part of my recovery arsenal..
In saying that anything less then 4 i think your wasting your time, I like 6 as I'm using towing..
2 are a waste of time, I have found that the hard way, I think I might follow your advice and get some more
 

Colly18

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I don't leave for camping without my 6 maxtax................
In saying that anything less then 4 i think your wasting your time, I like 6 as I'm using towing..
'Horses for courses' I say! I just carry two when heading outback, just in case. More for unpredicted mud than sand. Like everything recovery wise, it seems it's not for me, but more for getting someone else out of trouble. You prompted childhood memories for me. I mean, what the hell did we do before MaxTrax? Memories of my old man in the police LandRover (1960's) using the shovel and stripping a bit of native vegetation to provide some grip in sand. Yeh, yeh, I know we've moved on.
 

cookie64

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I don't leave for camping without my 6 maxtax.
I think there a fantastic bit of gear, even with a winch I have still needed to used them.
They are a big part of my recovery arsenal..
In saying that anything less then 4 i think your wasting your time, I like 6 as I'm using towing..
I have carried 2 for a very long time after getting stuck in Eyre Creek with water filling up to the Trans tunnel, they had a set in the Birdsville Shell which I bought in a heartbeat, they have saved many a fellow 4wder, my son in law on their property, and myself once in a total bog on the Oodnadatta Track.

I remove them though when not travelling, as the sun will eventually degrade the plastic and then when they're needed they will break - Murphy will see to that.
 

Toyasaurus

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The stupid P plater who with her kid in the back of the car, tried to drive under the front of my bus this morning.

How when turning right onto a road at a giveway sign do you miss a friggin bus coming?

Lucky for her I managed to get on the brakes hard enough to avoid her and not toss 30 odd kids around the bus.

Mind you, the look on the stupid muppet`s face was priceless.
 
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