The old mount was genuine toyota and looked like it had never been replaced with hard plastic and excessive cracking. I threw in the ebay one and once again noticed absolutely no difference in gearstick movement

. To add to the frustration after the testdrive I looked underneath and noticed that the safety bolt which goes through the middle of the mount has fallen out into the crossmember (the nut on top had disappeared). Overall I was unhappy with the quality of the ebay mount but at the end of the day you get what you pay for

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After this experience I decided to bite the bullet and buy something decent. Superior engineering are dealers for Trail Gear, a US company which makes upgraded parts for solid axle hiluxes like inner axle seals that don't leak, crawler gears, larger brake master cylinders and luckily for me, a heavily upgraded gearbox/transfer mount for the ln106. Unlike the standard mounts which connect the transfer case to the crossmember via free floating rubber the Trail Gear mount is connected via two bushes.
While waiting for the mount to arrive I tackled some other jobs. My tie rod had been bent ever since I have had the vehicle (someone had probably tried to snatch off it) and now looked in terrible shape with gouge marks and rust all over it. This was promptly removed and replaced with a solid one from superior engineering which bolted straight in except for the steering damper which due to the stronger superior engineering damper bracket needed to be replaced with one from a GQ patrol.
Next was the excessive play in the steering which I had noticed had been steadily increasing all of last year. Inspection revealed that this was coming from the pivot ball which had become loose in the boomerang J-arm. This was also promptly replaced with a new boomerang J-arm which fixed the excessive steering play.